One of the downsides to having a 'blog that people know about is...that people know about it.
Sometimes they even read it.
Sometimes they read a 'blog, decide that the person doing the writing is vulnerable, rebounding, or whatever, and that's when they make their move.
Somebody just made their move on me.
If this had happened a couple of months ago, things would be different indeed.
But as things stand now all this has done is confuse the issues tumbling around in my head.