She is worth it degrades into I think she is worth it degrades into I hope she is worth it degrades into I doubt she is worth it degrades into She is not worth it.
Okay, so I try a different path, a different goal.
We are worth it.
Shit, that's even worse.
Because anything that includes me forces me to look at things from her perspective.
I am not worth it and no degradation is necessary.