Would you rather have a fun fling or a lasting relationship?
Flings are for kids. I haven't been a kid for a long time.
What was your longest relationship?
I knew you were going to ask that. Right at two years. Or maybe four years. Depends on how you count.
What is your favorite personality trait?
Sweetness.
What is the most romantic thing a significant other could do?
One time a girl filled my house up with balloons when I was at pool league. That was pretty romantic.
When you are dating someone, what is the most important thing to you?
Comfortable intimacy.
Do you like pet names (ex: baby, sweetheart...)?
Sure, I suppose. I mean, I usually use them.
What is your ideal night out with a significant other?
Varies.
What is your ideal night in with a significant other?
Varies.
Would you be able to tell someone you love them, even if you didn't feel it?
Every time I've said those words, I've truly believed them. I'd never lie about something like that.
Do you like relationships that involve serious commitments?
Yes.
If you ever got engaged, how would you want it to happen?
I'd want to ask, then I'd want her to say yes. And I'd want her to refrain from issuing bullshit last-minute demands that she knew I'd never agree to.
If you were engaged, would you want a wedding as soon as possible?
I think I'd leave that decision up to my bride, but my own preference would be to marry sooner rather than later. Once you figure out who you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to start right away.
Do you like to talk about the future when in a serious relationship?
In a serious relationship, I like to talk about all sorts of things. Everything should be fair game.
Do you prefer a sensitive open relationship or a strong silent type?
The former. And I just figured out that a chick wrote this survey.
When in a relationship do you have to have contact with your partner on a daily basis?
Unless there's a good reason, daily contact should happen naturally. When it feels forced, then something is probably wrong.
Do you like public displays of affection?
Occasionally. It depends. Hand-holding and brief kisses in a bar are okay. Anal sex on the subway is bad.
Is there anything you won't tolerate while in a relationship?
Infidelity.
What is one thing that you value most in a relationship?
Honesty.
Would you ever be able to handle a long-distance situation?
I suppose it would depend on the situation. It would certainly be tough.
Do you believe in moving in together before engagement or marriage?
It's 2008, I think living together before marriage is almost mandatory these days.