I need to get something off my chest now.
I think I'm hoping that, by writing this, I'll defuse my emotions a little. I'll imagine that it will be read, and that way I'll be able to make my point without any confrontation.
Speaking of confrontation, I'm pissed.
I thought that things had been exaggerated. I was, after all, being assaulted with false accusations; it didn't seem like much of a stretch to assume that other details were being at least skewed and perhaps even fabricated wholly to better match my accuser's anger.
But now I've heard pretty much the same story from several different sources, and it turns out that there was no exaggeration at all.
She absolutely didn't provoke the situation. And she didn't do anything to move things to where they went. She stayed calm and non-confrontational even as you escalated to threats of physical violence against her.
Seriously, you threatened to beat her face? Why? Because you don't like her?
That's the exact same reasoning that assholes and bullies use. Which one are you? Or maybe you're both?
On what planet did she deserve those threats? Certainly not planet Earth.
Look, you're allowed to dislike a person. Nobody is perfect, and I'd venture that everyone has at least one person that just rubs them the wrong way. Hell, most people I meet rub me the wrong way. But adults don't go around threatening physical violence. Adults don't resort to any form of intimidation at all. Adults simply choose to not interact at all with the people they can't stand. That's a hell of a lot easier, and more civilized, for everyone.
Are you not an adult, is that the problem?
Or are you going to blame alcohol?
Oh, that's original.