So, I finally had to ask. It had been nagging at me. The guy had three weddings bands all on his official ring-finger.
I'm sorry I asked.
He's on his third marriage. His first two wives died. The first in a car accident when she was 23, and the second from breast cancer when she was 32.
So this poor guy's a widower twice over, and he's younger than me.
I hope this is the saddest thing I hear about today.