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Stone Vertical Epic 07.07.07
(bottle) I'm calling this a Belgian because I don't have any better ideas. Cloudy orange when backlit. No foam. An aroma of citrus that was a little bit intoxicating all on its own. Flavor of malts and oranges and light hops. This was a surprisingly good beer, as I usually don't care for citrus. Almost yummy.It's fascinating to me, how two or more people can all look at the same thing, and all see something different.
Like, I know some girls. I may have mentioned girls from time to time. I look at some of these girls, and I see something indescribably wonderful. But, some people, when they look at the same girls, they see a crazy person, or a whore, or a stuck-up bitch. They see a waste of space.
Sometimes, it's reversed. Sometimes, I'm the only one seeing the bad side of people. It's not very often, though, and I'm probably right about those assholes anyway. It's Everyone On Earth that's wrong, I think.
They see sinister motives where none exist. They see affection where none exists. They see lies and selfishness where none exist.
It's, like I said, fascinating to me. But not in a good way.
Anyway, that's not what I wanted to write about.
For a long time, Everyone On Earth has, at one point or another, told me to get over it and move on.
I envy the people who can do those things. Apparently, they're fairly common abilities. I mean, just look at the divorce and remarriage rates.
Let's ignore for a second the fact that I'm divorced, okay? It's not really relevant.
Step One - Get over it.
Okay, that's not really a choice, is it? Getting under it, so to speak - that was never a choice, not if it was real. So why should the opposite be true?
Step two - Move on.
Seems obvious to me that step two is doomed to failure unless step one has been accomplished. After all, it hardly seems fair to whoever you move on to. Ask MixedSignalGirl if she thought it was fair, what I put her through. Don't get too close when you ask her though. She bites.
So, the problem is with step one. The whole get over it crap. You manage that feat, and the rest is a cakewalk.
Do cakewalks even happen anymore, or am I just showing my age?
But I digress.
Right off the top of my head, I see three ways to get over it. One way would be, and this would be ideal I think, one way would be to just meet someone new, and be overwhelmed by them. That would be cool, I think. You'd be doing both steps at the same time. It would be all efficient and shit. Maybe you'd get to meet Al Gore, as a sort of bonus, because he likes that efficiency stuff.
Another way would be, and this should really be a last resort only, to just give up. Shut down.
It's weird that you give up but you shut down. There are many more examples like that. Feel free to do your own research. You'll find that up and down have completely cornered the idiom market. You hardly ever hear anything about left or right or sideways. This seems grossly unfair to me. I may vote for the presidential candidate who embraces this issue.
But I digress.
Remember, giving up only accomplishes step one. And step two is going to be pretty fucking tough after you've turned into a robot or a zombie or something else with no emotions or soul.
The third way to get over it is probably the most common method.
Just wait. Hold your breath and suffer and pity yourself and whine all the fucking time, perhaps pour your heart into a blog, and maybe, eventually, things get better. Maybe, eventually, you find that you have indeed gotten over it.
After that, you can feel free to move on. But not before. I cannot stress this enough. Step one must be completed before step two can succeed.
For those keeping score at home, I'm still fucking awake.