The thing is, this has been an utterly relationship-changing event. Perhaps even a relationship-destroying event.
Why am I the only one who see this?
And I don't normally believe in slippery slopes, but this one is totally frictionless!
Why am I the only one bothered by this? Why am I the only one devastated by this.
She would probably say she's just being optimistic, but the truth is that she is being very naive.